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Motherhood is busy. It’s demanding. It’s intense. It’s also wonderful and perhaps one of the most worthwhile and nourishing experiences you can go through. However, if there’s one thing a busy mom will almost never have it’s these elusive two words – free time.
Of course, that’s not to paint your life as a parent as a constant slog of hard work. There are many fun and relaxing moments that allow you to enjoy your family and spend time with them. But it’s also true that sometimes, you need your own space to feel rejuvenated.
Many people find that enjoying gaming of various types is a good way to unwind and feel your best. But as a busy parent, you might not have had the chance to experience this so far. How do you go about it, and what options are best to try? In this post, we’ll discuss how to get into gaming as a busy mom.
Try Simple Games You Know The Rules To
One way to ease into gaming is by starting with familiar games known to you. Classic board games or card games, for example, can be both enjoyable and easy to play in short bursts. Games like Solitaire, Uno, or even a quick round of Scrabble are great choices and you can enjoy them with the family. A simple chess website can help you train your brain a little too.
These rules are likely already known, so there’s no steep learning curve if you know the basics, even though with titles like chess there is room for mastery. This can help save time and reduce any frustration that might come from trying to understand something new, especially if you’re porting that to a digital platform.
Consider Accessible Video Games Such As Harvesting/Farming Sims
New video games don’t have to be about conflict, they can be relaxing too. Harvesting and farming simulation games, such as Stardew Valley or Animal Crossing, might be good options for you to relax in. If your child knows them, ask them to show you.
These games are generally low-stress and allow for casual play you don’t have to spend weeks learning. There’s no need to compete against others or rush through levels either, and that’s a nice breath of fresh air. Instead, they often focus on simple tasks like planting crops, fishing, or decorating spaces – perhaps hobbies you’re not too unfamiliar with.
Try A Portable Device You Can Take With You
You don’t have to feel plugged into the living room television to enjoy games. Devices like the Nintendo Switch or even a smartphone can provide flexibility that fits a hectic lifestyle – perhaps you’ve arrived twenty minutes early to pick up your children from school and have a few moments to relax while parked in your car.
This pick-up-and-go alternative prevents you from feeling tied to the game, but rather able to engage with it as and when doing so suits you. That in itself can be a much more freeing option.
With this advice, you’ll be sure to get into gaming as a busy mom.
